nyfw blues

New York Fashion Week is one of my favorite times of year—the energy, the opportunities, the inspiration. But with all of that also comes comparison and discouragement. Social media makes it hard not to compare yourself: maybe a client you’ve dreamed of working with booked another artist, or someone you work with regularly chose someone else this time. In the thick of it, it’s easy to forget how far you’ve come, to overlook your own wins. But remember—comparison is the thief of joy. Protect your peace: mute people on Instagram if you need to. It doesn’t mean you don’t support them; it means you’re prioritizing your own mental health.

I’ll be honest—the fashion week blues hit me hard this year. While I’m grateful to be busy, sometimes juggling clients means saying no to opportunities, which can feel discouraging. At the end of the day, though, it’s about making the choices that are best for you and your long-term career goals, while still honoring the clients who have been loyal to you.

This time of year always gives me the itch to do more. That’s the beauty and the challenge of this career: there’s no single “highest” position to reach. The possibilities are endless, which is inspiring—but it can also feel like nothing is ever enough. If you’ve felt that same pressure, know you’re not alone.

I was planning to write about fashion week essentials this week, but this has been on my heart—and I know others feel it too. Sometimes it’s just good to hear that you’re not the only one.

Wellness Tip: Take care of your mental health. Step away from your phone, go for a walk, drink water, and eat something nourishing.